There is no grieving process

My dear friend,

I cannot imagine the depth of grief and heartache you have experienced. As humans, we never get over grief. It is always there. Sometimes it hits like a tidal wave, and there is no refuge except to lean into Jesus's ever-waiting arms. Other times, it hangs out like a faithful and silent companion that whispers sweet memories to our soul while a soft tear falls from our eyes. Jesus is still there in those moments. It is in those moments that we can find sort of a hideaway. Choosing to live in those memories and not embracing the present and looking for the future. Your friends and family want to be there for you but are unsure of what to offer beyond prayers and hugs. Tell your loved ones what you need from them. I love your heart and spirit. Those things are still there, my friend, but through your grief, they are a little bit seasoned, a mixture of savory and sweet with a little bit of spice. You remain in my prayers.